General Tips to Write The Perfect Online Dating Profile
Do you ever feel pressure to craft the perfect an online dating profile that people won’t reject?
Creating an online dating or hookup profile isn’t complicated as it seems. The truth is that some of the best online dating profiles are simple. Writing an online dating profile involves a few simple tips n tricks that make your profile interesting and intrigue.
To help you with creating a dating profile that attracts responses from a potential dating partner, we have curated a list of 12 Top Tips. So, follow these tips while creating your dating profile, and start messaging and meeting with new people right away!
1 Don’t leave anything empty
Usually , dating websites are created after spending a good amount of time in research and consulting psychology consultants. It ensures to include everything necessary from the date seekers perspective. Let’s say if the website is asking you to upload 5 to 7 latest pictures of yourself, try to upload all of these.
If the website is asking you to verify your identity using Facebook or phone number, go ahead and verify yourself. The research has shown that more detail you enter in your profile, and more openly you tell about yourself, more messages you will recieve.
For example, 1) choosing an interesting username, writing a 2) complete description, and 3)verifying your profile can get up to you 80% more incoming messages.
Also, first sentence is immportant, try to think an dwrite ssomething "catchy". (In case You are not very creative try help of Artifical Intelegence. (More about that in the last chapter of this page)
2 Honesty Does Matter!
Either you are online or offline, the number one trait, everyone appreciates in the partner is honesty. When you are drafting your online dating profile, you may feel tempted to bring the best version of you and may hide a few things. But the majority of people prefer honesty and openness instead of pretending someone that you are not. Plus: lies don’t last forever.
You may upload an old younger picture of yourself and get a date, but it won’t be turned into the second date, no matter how good you are. If you lie once, you lost the trust of another person. Regaining trust isn’t easy or could be impossible in some cases. So, it is always good, to be honest, and be yourself, if you are serious about looking for the right match for yourself.
3 The Profile Picture is your First iIpression
A profile picture is worth 1000 words we all know. It delivers lots of information about who you are and how do you look. Your profile photos are way more important than you think. People want to have a clear idea about who you are and how you look before deciding if they want to contact you or not. If you hide behind sunglasses and hat or upload a photo with friends where people can’t tell which person you are, and they might choose to skip your profile.
Adding your pictures showing some kind of activity like you in the office, or with a smile has more chances to attract serious individuals. Almost 46% of women suggest that a smile is the number one physical feature that draws some attention. So don’t forget to smile and shine a little bit.
4Be Approachable
You may have some standards or strict rules about who want to date, but you don’t have to advertise everything online. For example, you might want to date only doctors or engineers. We understand, it is your personal choice, but if you mention it in your profile, you are rejecting everyone else and describing yourself as picky, or materialistic.
Your intention might be good but if you are making hard for people to talk to you, you are losing an opportunity to meet new people.
Of course if You are interested only and only in dating doctor, lawyer and so on, tand that is very imortant to You, number 1 of all You requirements than is OK to put that in first line of Your profile, so interested can read further an maybe contact You ,other will just swipe left.
5 Tell Your StoryThrough Pictures
Most of the online dating websites allow you to upload more than one profile picture. Actually some require at least few images. Use this an opportunity to tell more about yourself. If you choose all selfies, or all pictures showing you hiking, you are not doing yourself any favor.
Your photos shouldn’t only show how you look, but also what who you are. Like if you are a dog person, and own a dog, you can upload a picture of you playing with your dog. Just make sure, the picture isn’t too old or hide your face. This will attract people who love dogs or pets. You can also ask help from a friend to choose the best pictures for you before uploading any photo.
According to the data gathered by most popular online dating websites:
• People with full-body pictures get more than 200% messages.
• People with travel pictures get 6% more messages
• People with causal dressing and cool looks get 32% more response
So to ake long story short and keep it simple: 1) image full body (decent photo of course, no nudes) 2) Some of Your travel pictures and 3) picture where You are cooking in clothes You usualy wear at home.
6 You Don’t have to write long profiles
In the old days, online dating profiles were similar to resumes. You could say anything about your professional and personal achievements but nowadays people want to connect at a much more personal level. Not everyone is interested in your job or car you drive or house You have or don't have. This is especialy valid for generation Z.
Writing a short description about you and the kind of person you are looking for is enough. Your profile should give an idea of who you are, what your values are, and why you are even on the dating profile. Either you are looking for something serious or just need someone to hangout. You should be very clear about your intentions or future plans. If You are nature activist or have any hobby or passion mention that. People like to connect and date with people of similar interestes.
7 Don’t Hide Anything From Your Past
Lots of people might suggest you not to bring the topic of your kids too soon, but this doesn’t apply to online dating. If you were married at some point or have kids, there is nothing to hide.
You should be more open about your family and other responsibilities if you have any. This will save you from lots of trouble in the future as well.
If You are arrasted, been in jail, mention that too. People positively respond to HONEST, remember that.
8 Add dDetails about your Ideal Partner
We all have this idea of an ideal partner. It i simportant to mention few most important things that You would like to Your perfect macth has. If you want to find the right match for you, add more details about what kind of person you would like to date. For example, if you are an ambitious person, and like people who are hardworking, independent, and mature, explain that in your profile.
If you are looking for someone who loves watching movies, don’t just say that you love movies, rather add a few movie names you would like to watch with your prospective date. This also increase chance on the other side to send You first message with some good opener. For example You mention that You like movie"Home alone" and You watched it manyh times, that gaves opener to potntial partner to easy start conversation answering for example: "How You like more in the movie Kevin or Evil Guy that Joe Peschi plays?" :) Be creative as much as You can. Also for openers again usage of a bit help of Ai is ok, it is like You have a older and more expirienced brother or sister and You ask Him/Her for advice. Again don't go 100% AI that makes no sence, that would not be Your dating / hookup profile it would be AI profile and You are not AI ! :)
9 Don’t be Negative About Online Dating
The taboo of online dating is fading gradually but still, it isn’t easy to get a date or hookup online. Lots of people don’t tell the truth about their intention or lie on their profiles which waste time and energy of honest and serious people who are looking for relationships online.
If you go online with thinking that ‘none of dating apps works’, ‘people are shallow these days’, etc. or don’t have a clear idea of what you are looking, this isn’t going to help. Rather have a positive outlook on life, relationships, and online dating scenario. Try various dating apps to see which works best for you. There are millions of people out there, using these online dating apps right now and thousands have already met their soul-mate through such apps. You might be one of these lucky people.
10 Give your Profile a Romantic Touch
If you are someone who likes to go on a romantic candlelight dinner or wish to take a long walk with your partner on the cool sand of the beach, don’t be shy to talk about it. If might seems a bit cheesy but this actually attracts people. The truth is people join dating websites because they are looking for a romantic partner and mentioning romance can get up to 40% more messages.
11 Be Yourself
You may have heard this many times but this is perhaps the most important advice for online or offline dating. You shouldn’t pretend, lie, or fake to attract someone in your life.
Always believe that you are good enough for the right person and no matter what you do, you can never be good enough for the wrong person.
When it comes to dating, be the most authentic self of yourself. There is always someone as weird as you are, who is going to love your flaws as much as your positive side. Just be yourself and be open to meeting new people. Never feel shy or afraid of accepting your flaws.
12 Love and Respect Yourself First
This isn’t an online dating profile writing tip but it is an extremely important tip for being successful in dating space. If you don’t love yourself or feel you are not good enough for whatever reasons, it will be visible in your profile which is very unattractive.
Good and positive vibes always work best when looking for relationships. Negativity attracts more negativity and misery. You don’t want that. Right? So, stay happy. Think positive and never forgets to keep smiling.
Your online dating profile could make or break your impression but if you follow the above-mentioned tips, you don’t have to worry about anything. Just relax. Fill all the necessary details in a dating profile, upload the pictures using the tips above, and get ready to meet some really exciting people!
If You are an Introvert read next to chapters: tips for introverts and AI usage in profile polishing.
Dating Profile Tips for Introverts
13 If You are considering Yourself as an Introvert, we suppose that you read the 12 general tips above that we wrote about, because the answer is partly there. So If You are not read it would be nice to read that first.
Because making Introvert and any other profile is very similar. When it comes that You are an Introvert, shy and so on, it is just thing that You need to write in first sentence. Who like will continue reading who don't like introverts will jusy swipe left. That first sentence, opener, should be like we already say something "catchy" and at same time give information about you introvert personality and Your intentions and how You see Your perfect date or hookup or life partner. For example: "I am shiny with words and other people, but my mind has thousands ideas". Or "I need some time to go to first date with You, but if You are courious introvert like myself, I think it can be faster, just prove me that!". Those are just examples, idea is simple: open Your description with tone "I am an introvert, don't see that is something bad, just looking for similar person, maybe soul mate". Then read first 12 general tips where are examples of movies an dbooks and events or video games You should mention so Inrovert on the other side can recognize You and message You because he feels confortable with You. Remeber very often on the other side will be other Introvert like You, You just need to be clear so he.she can easier start conversation by sending first message.
Small Help of AI for Creating Catchy and Interesting Profile
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