Tinder Alternatives
What are replacements if Tinder not works for You?
Tinder is the number one hookup app those days, among large number of various hookup apps, most used, and most popular with the largest user base. But, according to our opinion, it is not the most effective way to get laid online. Many people after weeks or months of using it, simply been frustrated, and remove tinder from their phone or PC, seeking other hoookup sites and apps. Reason? They can't land one-night stands, non a single one, in simple words - they can't get laid using Tinder.
If You too tried but can' get laid using Tinder, or You can find seome girls, but girls You had casual encounters with,are not so good, maybe should read this text about Tinder alternatives. We received a lot of questions about this topic so here it is, our analysis, opinion and possible solutions.
If you accept the so-called attraction scale, Tinder is good for guys 9/10 and 10/10. For women, no matter how they look like, they land one night stands much easier no matter how they look. Reason? Well, there will be always some guy or actually, more that one, who didn't have sex for a longer time and will pick a girl that is in the lower league then his, but for guys situation is opposite. There is one old saying it says something that males always want more (women) and women always want just better (man). Truth!
For those, who don't know, Tinder is the most popular , and first app that introduced a unique concept. The idea behind Tinder is to use Your GPS location from your phone gps sensor and to show people near You interested in sex. Next is that when you pick (swipe right) person You like, you still can' communicate with her. You can start a conversation if that person (women) also liked You. So how that look in a real-life? The average guy will like 100 girls around daily, because that is Tinder's daily limit and usually none of those girls will like them, and the average guy can't find a female sex partner. On the other side guys who are 9/10 or 10/10, don't have that problem, but here we are talking to you, average or a bit above average guy.
We hope You understand what the problem with Tinder is when it comes to most males. If You don' believe, try yourself. So what can be a solution for finding girls for sex in other ways and places, what is in 21st-century and way people have communication, Tinder replacement or alternative that works better thanTinder for average guys? There are few.
1. Hookup Sites
We prefer hookup sites. Point is the same, finding someone for casual sex, but everything going much slower than Tinder, and, You have the second chance. When you swipe left, that means that you don like a person on Tinder, Tinder will never show that person again, and on sex dating sites you van more shots than one. Another thing is that You have much more space for communication, and that increases your chances to become attractive to a girl that didn't see you as attractive at first sight, but you may be like the same music, films, books, lifestyle and so on. That is something that increases your chances to make her interested to meet you and have sex with You. On Tinder, you simply don' have that option. Tinder is like a store, you see and you see the price, you want or don't want to buy, literally, Tinder shows You picture to girls around you, with one sentence of your description if You are not Bred Pit is hard that she will pick you, because I that store, there is a lot better 'products' (guys) for the same price. Now You understand why hookup sites are the first alternative to Tinder.
2. Other Hookup Apps
Other apps for casual sex (clik for full list), we wrote already about that, are similar to Tinder and all have some pros and cons. The disadvantage for all is that none of them is not even close to Tinders' members base. But on the other side, according to our experiments, it can be m7ch easily to find average or below average girl with some of these apps than with Tinder. We are talking about both, free and paid apps. All free is worth trying, it cost nothing except Your time. And nerves.
3. Chats and forums (but NOT oriented on sex topic)
The idea behind this can sound crazy, but it is tested and proven many times. It can be used to find a local girl for sex , but using the same principle you can find also a girlfriend for a serious relationship, or even marriage, who knows. It is very simple, here is how it works. You have so e interests, hobbies, passion about job, or lifestyle, maybe you are having pets, or like DIY kinds of stuff? You are a member of forums where you discuss those things that you are interested in? Well, use that. For example, every forum has the option for members to add their avatar (photo). When you see a girl that You like, you go and list all her posts. Read her postings to see how she is thinking, what she likes, what she wants what she needs, literally know everything about her that you can.
Then start to post in threads where she posts. Not in every thread, but pick some that you are good informed about. Then start to quote her, or directly ask something related to the topic discussed. Then, if she doesn't ignore You, in if response o public forum ( or chat, it is same) then go to private messaging. Send her PM, and see what is happening. If she regularly answering, then you can go to the last step: more intimate talks. When people communicate in this way, there are huge chances that there is attraction from both sides just unlike Tinder, attractiveness is not only and always just physical.
Play a game using chats is exactly the same, just a bit faster than same game on forums. Show you have interested in her not only for sex with her. Don't send or ask for pictures until she asks you. Be patient and your chances to get laid are very high.
That is all for now, feel free to contact us with experiences, questions or suggestions not only related to this topic about Tinder replacements and alternatives but also about anything else.