AM Netflix mini-series
Let's mention Netflix's new series Sex, Lies & Scandal (2024). You know that we rarely talk about trending topics; we are focused on keeping our dating/meeting new people guides, which we have been doing our best to keep updated for over a decade. But sometimes, we write about trending topics. For example, the first time we wrote about Craigslist personal alternatives was because we received many messages from various people who used that way to meet other people, who asked what the best replacement for CL personal was then.
The topic is not new; it reminds us of the old movie "Sex, lies and Videotape".
Anycase, this is the second time we have covered "trending" topics, and here is why we do that: a site that has been in first place on our best sites list for years gets a mini-series published by Netflix, so we would like to give our point of view, it is Ashley Madison.
We will not discuss details about mini-series. Here is a trailer and the official Netflix page, so you can watch it on Netflix if you want. What we will do, is talk about controversial stuff that makes this site so good, but also so criticized over time.
If You are not interested in watching, here is what it is all about, TL;DR:
Docuseries that delves into the infamous Ashley Madison data breach. This three-part series, directed by Toby Paton, provides a comprehensive look at the controversial dating site for extramarital affairs, its rise during the dot-com boom, and the devastating hack that exposed millions of users' private information, leading to widespread personal and social fallout.
The series features interviews with various individuals affected by the breach, including users, employees, and experts. Key figures include Sam and Nia Rader, who discuss the impact of the breach on their marriage, and Marc Morgenstern, the former creative director of Ashley Madison, who explains the site's branding and mission. The series also includes insights from tech reporters and cybersecurity experts who investigate and explain the breach's technical aspects and its aftermath.
"Ashley Madison: Sex, Lies & Scandal" explores themes of privacy, betrayal, affair, and the consequences of living double lives, providing a sobering look at how a single cyber attack can upend countless lives.
Better or Deeper view at AM controversially
We will not talk about things in series, we will rather take a look at different aproach of controversaly related to this dating site.
Think for a moment: can site be wrong because they have provocative slogans like "life is short - have affair" and similar provocative slogans they had?
If we look around, we see things that are as old as humanity: infidelity, cheating, living double lives, and so on. If we look at what most people use social networks for, it is meeting new people. Sometimes, it is intentional, and sometimes, it just happens without intentions. For example, a mid-80s study showed that half of affairs and cheating happen in the workplace. Then, look at other life situations. People go to bars and restaurants, but there is a much higher chance because the concept is to meet someone new in the bar than in a restaurant. Then, look at places like gyms. Those days, many people work out; it wasn't as prevalent 30 years ago as it is today, so gyms are also places where people meet other people. Then, look at summer vacations, beaches, people in some informal atmosphere, and that is also a great place and situation to meet someone new in your life. And in all those real-life situations, it is very personal whether a person who meets someone new will start an affair or not. Those are just few examples of everyday places which gives people chance to meet someone new, have sex and eventually cheat partner.
In that point of view, we will rather have conclision that simple there are people who are in higher risk to have an affair an dpeople in lower risk to start afair.
Now, let's get back to Ashley Madison and the stigma around it. Many conservative people will blame AM for immorality when it cames to their provocative slogans, then to face with fact that people cheat each other because thet want to do that. Our opinion that no site, app or anyhting can convince someone to have affair, people just have or not have that inside. Sites like one we discuss, social meda, real life social events, etc , are just giving more chance for something like that. But again: that is the same as with people who don't like sugar; you can't convince them to drink classic Coke, they want sugar free Coke, if there is no sugar free Coke they will dring water but they decision not to take suggar intact. Think on that way on human relationshios, and thins like cheating and affair. No ona can force You to drink Coke if You want to drink sugar-free Coke.
According to that, old Greek philosopher said, when it come to some rules, laws, or simple rules for good behaving that: "bad man will olways find a way to avoid the best law, and on the other side good man didn't need any law. (Because everybody knows what is good and what is not. The simple rule is: what You don't like to be done to yourself by someone, just do not do to anybody.
We are not taking any position about this great site for meeting people, we just want to to give different approach. And like we said on beginning of this post, only reason is that we have ton of positive responses for years from people who are using AM. We can't go in motives and ask then do they use to find date, only sex, onenight stand, life partner or affair or something else. From our point of view, since we are testing sites for meeting new people (dating, and hookup sites an dapps to be precise), we grade sites and apps on those which "work" and those which are not "working well" or "not working at all".
What we want to send message to anybody who blames this or any other site or app for meeting new people for sex, dating, or relationship is: no one will have an affair because some site or app provides an opportunity for that; look from the opposite side, people who want affair seeking all time new and easier ways to do that. From our point of view, Ashley Medison is just one of many social networks, with clear intentions, fair and square.
Conclusion
In today's digital age, the ways people connect have dramatically diversified, leading to both meaningful relationships and instances of infidelity. Whether through social networks, clubbing, dating sites, or apps, the essence remains the same: wherever people meet, there exists the potential for love and infidelity.
Social networks have revolutionized how people communicate and form relationships. Platforms like Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter allow individuals to connect with friends, family, and strangers. While these networks offer opportunities for genuine connections, they also provide a fertile ground for infidelity. The ease of reconnecting with past lovers or forming new, secretive relationships can lead to emotional or physical cheating. Ashley Madison is just a small part of that and shouldn't be blamed for their marketing activities.
The anonymity and accessibility of social networks make it easy for anyone to engage in meeting new people and cheating behavior that they might otherwise avoid in face-to-face interactions. Sexting is very common type of cheating amount both younger an dolder population. The phenomenon of "micro cheating" – engaging in minor, seemingly innocuous behaviors that suggest a romantic interest outside of one's primary relationship – is prevalent on these platforms. Liking photos, commenting on posts, and sliding into DMs can all be seen as steps toward infidelity.
Dating sites and apps like OkCupid, Bumble, Tinder, Badoo and so on, have become some of the most popular ways for people to meet. These platforms are designed to facilitate romantic connections, whether for casual flings or long-term relationships. However, they also provide ample opportunities for infidelity.
The algorithmic nature of these apps matches users based on preferences, making it easy to find someone who meets specific criteria. This can be incredibly tempting for those in committed relationships who feel their needs are not being met. The discreet nature of these platforms allows users to engage in conversations and arrange meetings without their partners knowing.
The sheer volume of potential matches can also lusualy believe there might always be someone better out there. This mindset can erode commitment and lead to emotional or physical cheating. There is some old funny saying: "Maen always want more, women just always want better" :)
Regardless of the platform or setting, the essence of infidelity lies in the breach of trust and the pursuit of emotional or physical connections outside of a committed relationship.Cheating usually but not always, starts from dissatisfaction with one's current relationship, a desire for novelty and excitement, or a lack of emotional fulfillment.
Infidelity is often driven by underlying issues within a relationship. Lack of communication, emotional disconnect, and unmet needs can push individuals to seek solace and validation elsewhere. Also psychologist says that cheating on partner(s) may be a symptom of deeper problems, such as low self-esteem or a need for more validation by other people.
The avenues for meeting new people are vast and varied in the modern world, from social networks and clubbing to dating sites and apps. While these platforms offer opportunities for meaningful connections, they also present significant risks for infidelity. The essence of infidelity remains the same, regardless of where or how it occurs: there is a balance of trust and commitment in a relationship. Understanding the factors that contribute to infidelity and its impact on relationships is crucial for navigating the complexities of modern love and commitment, so AM is not problem, if there is a problem, that is a human nature.
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