TL;DR: Step 1 - Prepare, Step 2 - Find Your Local Hookup
Prepare for Your Casual Hookup
We already wrote about one night stands, casual sex, dating, relationships and how stuffs works. this time we want to focus on helping you to find sex partners near you. First, to know that there is no such thing as a free hookup, you need to have some money in the pocket. If you meet the person you should have money for few drinks, condoms, place to stay (hotel room) or something like that. If you are women, then you can have totally free hookups whenever you want, since men taking care of such details :)
Keep in mind that in every smaller or larger community, no matter do you living in NYC, Paris, London or some smaller city or even village, there is always the same number of males and females with same need: to have sex. That means, that actually, it is pretty easy to find someone, you just need to know where to look and what approach to have for success. Put some money in your pocket, and start looking around since a lot of women (and men) near you seeking someone for "solving" own sexual desire. In days of CraigsList personal ads, it was a bit easier, but CraigsList closed their personal ads in March / 2018. Still, there are very good CraigsList alternatives, but we will describe 3 other ways than seeking local sex partner using classifieds websites.
Use Hookup Sites to Find Casual Sex partner
Online "way" is one of the best those days, because everybody is online! No matter are you, teenager or senior, all your potential sex partners are online. Go online and grab what you need! In past years we are maintaining (review, rate, track user response and votes) list of hookup sites that actually work. Some of them are free, some are paid, generally paid sites works better, due to a simple fact: when someone needs to pay $10 or $20 membership fee, they probably will not be trolling other people, post fake account, photos and so on. That doesn't mean that free hookup sites are not usable, we are just giving slightly advantage to paid casual meeting sites. On the other side, still you can have luck and meet someone who is serious on free hookup site, there is no rules, but in general paid sites are better than free.
If you are new to Online Hookups world, keep in mind few simple instructions: Open account on one or more casual sex sites (recommended at least two, so you can play "large numbers game"). Setup your profile (identity). That means that you need to pick few best pictures of you, and to write one or two simple sentences that describe exactly who you are and what you want. Do not go into deep details, but also don't leave blank. Other people (women) have only those 2 parameters to decide will they hook up with you or not: your look and few sentences of what you are. We don't recommend to put pictures of you 10 years ago, or something like that, just pick few of the best photos and upload in your hookup profile. When writing info about you, try not to be boring, try to make reader on the other side interested and curious to find out something more about you, don't say too much, but also don't skip that step.
Hookup Sites (Last update: Sep 2023) | Rating | Review | |
 | 5/5 | 1st on our list for this and previous months (and years) , and in top 3 all the time. One of oldest hookup sites with huge members base and tradtion. They also offering various "tools" for finding partners that other sites don't have.They have focused not only on singles but also women in relationships/marriage who are seeking some more "fun", that is one of the reasons why they are so popular since 2001... | |
 | 5/5 | Focused on women 35+ who are seeking local younger males . | |
 | 5/5 | New,last added week ago, and for now we like it very much, excellent male/female ratio, looks like new #1 on our list. For now we are keep eye om Seeking. | |
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| 4/5 | After many suggestion and opur review we decided to giva a cjence to to this site focused on singles to make connections both for dating or something casual. | |
| 4/5 | Excellent hooking up site, fresh, many new members low rate of fake profiles. Also, popular amoung couples who are seeking other couples or male / female singles. | |
5/5 | New with a bit different concept, we are tracking for short time, excellent, A++ (for now). | ||
 | 4/5 | HonrnySexts for dirty talks and meeting. Most of female members are in 20-35 age range. One of new raising stars when it come to hookup sites. | |
 | 5/5 | New hookup site, for now we are just tracking but looks really good and fresh, maybe should be rated higher, since success was very good there, but we again need some time to see what will be with this (for now) great casual sex site. | |
 | 5/5 | Excellent, huge members base, inovative concept, new cantidate for #1 site. Refreshing, we will keep our atention on this site. | |
 | 4/5 | Mostly focuse for finding women in 30s, 40s and 50s who are seeking younger men, Very good, new and interesting concept: you don't need to open account, everything works as FaceBook app, so you just login with your FB account, everything is descreet and others can see that you are using this app to find hookup, mean on girlfriends, wifes, parents and so on, safe to use :) | |
 | 5/5 | New, a bit different concept, for now extremelly good hookup / casual sex site, let say "refreshing" compared to all other hookup sites and apps. | |
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| 5/5 | Only 8 weeks on our list but very very promising hookup site, fresh and very simple to use (both on desktop and mobile) | |
 | 5/5 | Great adult dating (hookup) site focused to find people near you. Technically it is great, you can use it from any mobile or desktop (laptop) device, easy and full functionality even on older mobile phones. Very solid users base, male to female ratio very good aprox. 2.5 : 1, highly recommanded. | |
 | 5/5 | A lot of new members, ready for fast "communication" and making ASAP "connections", highly recommended :) | |
Use Hookup Apps to find Casual Sex partner
Unlike Casual meeting (hookup) sites that exist in various form for past 20 or more years, something new in last 10, are hookup apps. The principle is very same, but we are noticing a trend in past years that becomes harder to get laid using the app than site due to higher men competition on apps. We also maintain a list of free and paid Hookup Apps (Tinder, Bumble, Down, Pure, etc) so you can take a look. Also, user rated list of Hookup Sites and apps is something that helps to us to give rating to various sites.
The principle is very similar, but apps are more focused on "visual", that means in simple words that on apps 10% males can have (and having sex) with 80-90% percent of women who are there. Some say that those are natural rules and that more attractive and powerful men will have more chicks and better sex life, and life at all. We are not sure if that explanation is true or not, but any case it makes sense.
Apps are simply "faster" marketplace than sites or real-life meeting people for sex. Every app gives you a suggestion which member you should try to contact, what give us situations that many women have literally thousands of messages every day, and most of the guys don't get a single response, so there is no communication. No communication = no sex.
