Best Working Dating & Hookup Sites in Your Area in 2024.
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Online Dating and Casual Hookups?
If you are lonely, single, just divorced, or even never had a girlfriend, or for a long time didn't have sex at all, answer to your question may be: online dating and casual hookups, thanks to 21st-century technology. This is the online hookup guide for man, women, and couples. Continue and you will find out how stuff works, and how to find your one night stand(s).
It is no secret that statistics show us growing trend of usage dating and hookup sites and various apps for the same purpose. We already wrote, but it was to "general" about finding sex partners and landing one night stands online and in real life, now we went put sam light on "online" part of a coin.
Statistics show that in this year, almost 40% of people who date or even are in marriage were found each other using websites, apps or social networks. And that trend will continue.
If you are decided to try online game of dating and hookups, it is important to focus on few things:
- Stop wasting time on "wrong" hookup/sex dating sites
- Don't rush chicks for sex when you make contact
- Never put all eggs in the same basket
- Avoid being scammed by hookup site or person you met
Wasting time with scammy sites
First most important is choosing good (working) hookup website. There are few thing to keep eyes open:
1) Sites that have almost no females, and you will be messaged by bots who are pretending that are girls and they are computer algorithms.
2) The only trusted site is a site where you want to pay monthly membership with your credit card. A good site is usually worth of paying of every cent, and a bad one can even steal your credit card.
3) Always remember: when something is "too good to be true, it probably is not true" (Murphy's law), that means if you meet the very hot chick and she is ready to bang with you, something is wrong. It is possible to meet the very hot chick and have sex with them, but hotter chic is, things by natural rules must slower, because there is no hot chicks who are ready to have sex with you without good "examination" of you, and for that you need to exchange at least 30-50 messages.
4) Golden Rule for finding sex online: hotter chick/women = smaller chances to hook up with her, and if you have chances with such girls you must be very patient. The explanation is very simple: they have so much offered so they can be picky. On the other side, less attractive chick or women, fatties, girls who are not in so good shape are opposite "case", with them, things going much smoother and faster, again same explanation: they don't have so much offers so they are much more flexible.
5) Go slowly! This is mentioned few times, but here is again: don't rush, women simply don't like guys who desperately seeking sex. Pretend that you are interested in her, her interests, her hobbies, career, whatever, don't mention sex until she came with that topic. Even that try to ignore for some time, making her to try harder with talks about sex.
Just go slowly and you will be successful
The most important thing when meeting girls or women in real life is not to looking "I am desperately seeking sex". This is even more significant to avoid in online hookup game. Think on this way: Every chick has a lot of offers, hotter chick = more offers by another man. Now, if you are in the club where is 100 males and 100 females, few hottest chicks will have the attention of all 100 guys, now imagine on real dating or hookup dating site how many "fans" nice women or girl have? 1.000? 10.000? Why is this mentioned? To keep in mind that women are picky, and they are always choosing, and to avoid to just "skip" you on online dating site first and most important is: don't rush, don't mention sex, nor anything close to that topic, no matter because everybody on hookup site is there just for that: hookups, women just don't like to be treated as sexual object. Even when they want sex, and they want same as we, they like to see you how you are playing "seduction" game. In simple words: If girl or women is an active member of sites that are focused only on casual encounters, she doesn't like to see that with your behavior you are telling "hey, you are here I am here, lets bang". Patience is a key, according to our experiences, 30-50 messages in few hours will do the job, she will have some picture of you. When she thinks that she knows enough about you, she will accept your invitation for a coffee, drink or something third. When you see for the first time, again don't rush. Play a game, and act like you are not too much interested in sex.No matter you meet on hookup app or site, you can't have approach like"we found each other on that please where people come to have sex, so let's bang". Women don't like such things, especially if they really need sex, maybe more than you, but that approach is not good, just go slowly.
Never put all eggs in the same basket, what that means?
Good idea is to have account on few good hookup sites, not only one. The best number is 3-4, on that way you will multiply the number of potential sex partners by x3-4. Consider on this way: if every site has 4-5 that will be with you in bad or long-term fuck buddy "combination", then on 4 hookup sites you will 4x5= ~20 women in "your league". You will agree that 20 potential casual fuckbuddies are much better than 5 :)
That is why we are reviewing and maintaining the list of best hookup sites. The methodology is simple: we are really using those "find sex sites",we are going to dates with girls and older women, and we really have the idea what sites are good and what are not so good.
Once you find the right sex sites, casual sex with various partners near you become the game where you will have many new experiences. Following simple rules, taking care of protection and knowing how to act after one night stands give you endless opportunities for lot of fun and sex. Every site that really has some female members base could be a potentially good place for those who are experienced and know how to deal with women, it is same as in real life. But we are more focused on finding adult hookup sites that have a better female to male ratio. Like in "real life": some guys can enter any club or place where people go out and in the same evening will have a new chick in the bad, but on the other side many other guys will go out for months, maybe years to land single one night stand. Now we are just trying to pick sites that will work best for you, and one of the most important parameters when we choosing is male-female ratio and good age diversity.
Summary:
- Open accounts on few TRUSTED sites
- Try to be interesting to women not just asking "Hi, do you want to f**k with me"
- Don't rush, women don't like sexual desperate men
- Read our complete One Night Stand guide which describes male-female relationships and in that way increase your chances of success.
- Never forgot to protect against STDs (STD risk are solved very simple: use condoms everytime, everywhere)
- Read comple Online Sexting Guide we prepaired for you.
- Look at Sex, Love and Relationships in 21st century.
Avoid being scammed on any way
Just once more time keep eyes opened, from bad sites who will scam you for money, to persons on real sites who will again tray steal your money on this or that way!
When we said bad hookup (or dating) sites, we mean on sites that look like regular casual dating sites, but what they only do is to take your initial membership until you see that there are no women there at all. When we said "bad person" on hookup sites (or apps) that means persons who are asking for money or anything similar. Hookup sites are NOT for prostitution, those are places where people who want to have sex can meet opposite or same-sex partners, so there is no place for any kind of material satisfaction, because if you pay sex that is called prostitution. Another thing to take care are scammers who open fake women profiles, communicate with you and then ask some money, for example, to come to your city because they are living on the other part of a country or other part of the world. So Your keep eyes opened!
Now you can pick some of the trusted sites from our list, we wish you great hookups and the great time!